Arguments in a marriage should be fair, but what does that mean? That mean taking out the name calling, not yelling and listening to each other. Once the argument becomes personal with name calling, anger tends to follow next and the conversation begins to snowball. Yelling only induces who can yell the loudest. Not listening to what your partner is saying will only make the argument come up again. Each side has to be reasonable and a middle ground has to be met otherwise nothing gets resolved and couples tend to harbor anger when arguments do not get resolved. There are many ways to decrease arguments but try walking away from the argument when it gets heated and come back to it later. I cannot stress enough that the disagreement get resolved sooner rather than later, hopefully before the days ends.