Valentine's day does not have to be something stressful, expensive and complicated. Sometimes doing something different or being impulsive can bring a wonderful spark to the relationship. I vouch for people to get back to the basics of Valentine's day. For example, try cooking together, renting a movie, writing out a card or do something classic like bowling. These things seem simple but we often forget the enjoyable things we used to share together. You can do these activities and more all in one day or do them on a spontaneous day.